Comments on: What encourages people to wait until marriage to have ***?

By: Hellboy

Hellboy — Mon, 18 May 2009 04:00:38 +0000

being a freak

By: Zahra

Zahra — Sun, 17 May 2009 20:24:33 +0000

bc religion brainwashes people to second guess every decision

By: The Illusion of Progress

The Illusion of Progress — Fri, 15 May 2009 19:53:03 +0000

Because of dumb @$$es that follow religion, or they have a small d!ck.

By: Skadoosh.

Skadoosh. — Tue, 12 May 2009 22:10:15 +0000

Alarming increase of people being infected with the AIDs epidemic and many other vicious STDs

Unwanted Pregnancy

Religion

By: sunshinegrl1608

sunshinegrl1608 — Tue, 12 May 2009 21:52:42 +0000

I was a virgin until I got married a year ago, and I’m proud of it! I had this incredibly precious gift that I had saved for only my husband, and I got to give it to him with God’s blessing.

Sounds fluffy, doesn’t it? The world doesn’t use words like precious or gift or wait when they talk about ***. They talk about wow and desire and what a rush.

But *** is God’s creation, not the world’s. Is the world’s way of whoever, whenever, whatever as exciting and free as they say it is?

No way!

Does God’s way of saving *** for marriage make it boring and routine?

No way!

The world would say I’m weird. Waiting until marriage? What? The world would say for sure that I really missed out.

Know what I say?

“You bet I did!”

I missed out on a lot of things. I was missing out on:

• Fear of Disease:
Am I going to die of AIDS from sleeping with this guy?
Does he have a sexually transmitted infection and not know it?

• Fear of Comparison:
Is he thinking of other girls when he’s with me?
Does he wish I were more like _______?

• Fear of His Past
How many people has he been with before me?
Am I important to him at all or just another body?

• Fear of the Future
Will he still care about me once he gets what he wants?
What if I get pregnant?

• Fear of Lies
He says he loves me, but does he really just want ***?
He says guys can’t help themselves, and that’s why he keeps going even after I say no.

• Fear of Not Being Good Enough
If I’m not better than any girl he’s been with, he’ll find someone else.
Will he laugh at me because I don’t know what to do?

• Fear of Being Caught
Is God watching this?
What if my parents find out?

Yes, anyone who chooses God’s way is missing out on the world’s way. Thank goodness!

I will never, ever regret choosing to wait until marriage to have ***. Why? Here are only some of the reasons why God’s way is so much better:

1. No AIDS or STDs.
2. You trust each other—you get to love without fear.
3. No worries about the past. My husband cared enough about me, even before we met, to save himself for me. That’s very ****.
4. You get to make love as much as you want without guilt!
5. You know he loves you, not just your body. And it’s going to last.

In marriage, you get to be as **** as you want, and God totally approves. Have you ever read the Song of Solomon? The wife writes some really racy stuff about her good-looking husband, and God approved it so much that He put it in His Book for the whole world to read.

By: I Aint Bitter

I Aint Bitter — Mon, 11 May 2009 15:41:57 +0000

uh,maybe they just cLAIM to not had sex,i mean,come on,are you that gullible?

By: vis

vis — Mon, 11 May 2009 04:57:27 +0000

i can answer this one easy..kids.. if you have children with someone and then they leave your holding the bag for child support.. if you marry them and they leave your holding the bag for so much more..but mostly it the child and religion thing going on and the STD..

By: icee&frosty

icee&frosty — Sun, 10 May 2009 01:24:10 +0000

Religion! xox

By: Krystal N

Krystal N — Thu, 07 May 2009 09:49:21 +0000

I waited and so did my husband. We were engaged for 2 years and it was just like ccflo said. It was associated with us both being Christians and believing our bodies were temples and following what God wanted best for us. We are extremely happy having made that commitment together. Imagine having *** for the first time ever (both partners) on your honeymoon night. It was indescribable how incredibly close it brought us (I’m not saying it can’t bring you close if you’re not married) it just really was something we chose to do. I didn’t want to give myself to someone and end up something happening to that relationship and getting married to someone else later and feeling like I gave part of myself to someone else and not fully to my husband.

By: Edima

Edima — Wed, 06 May 2009 06:57:14 +0000

Personally its because of religion
Again the is the issue of moral values, such as keeping yourself for the right person
Even if someone is engaged that does not mean the person is going to get married
Again there is the is the issue of STDs which are making rounds with sexually active people
And last but not least the issue of unwanted preganancy that has caused crazy controversy on abortion laws