What can i do during my honeymoon trip so that i dont get pregnant?
Discussion Corner — By NikhilBhide on October 23, 2007 at 07:54neelofar asked:
Hi. Im getting married this 20 March. Im pretty sure im getting my menses on 8 march and of course in two weeks will be around 21,2,23 march. My fiance already booked a hotel on 21 march for our honeymoon. I think i wil be pregnant if i will have *** these dates mentioned above. It will be our first experience in having *** and we dont want to use any contraceptives! Please give me an idea.
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Go to a gynocologist and get on some form of birth control. It can be a pill or a patch. The pill is easy because you just take one pill every day. It usually isn’t very expensive for the prescription, but the appointment may cost quite a bit more.
Why don’t you want to use contraception? I think you need to weigh up how important not using contraception is versus how much you don’t want to get pregnant right now.
Consider going on the pill – it’s not an intrusive contraceptive like condoms etc and very easy to take. Surely this is incomparably better than the risk of ending up having an unwanted (at least at this stage in your life) baby.
I think that is definitely the best course of action, but if you have issue with contraception for religious reasons or similar and are dead against them you could use the withdrawal method. However it has a very low pregnancy prevention rate compared to other methods, and it will ruin the mood for your first time.
Rermember although possible it is unlikely you will get pregnant that easily. TV would have you believe otherwise but I know for a fact most people try for 4-12 months to get pregnant before they have any success. Hence you could risk it. It depends what your long term plans are though – if you keep on having *** without contraception chances are you will get pregnant.
Investigate going on the pill…that way it will prevent pregnancy but won’t be a “contraceptive” that will get in the way. You could just take the pill for a cycle or two…once you start you don’t have to stay on it long term.
Start the pill the 5th day of your next period. (assume you have one coming up about now.) that way you have over 30 days before the wedding.( it is most effective after 30 days because of the new low doses.) Then you have no problem and a condom is not needed. Use a condom on your honeymoon. Spermicidal foams work but are rather iffy. Diaphrams and foam are better but can be dislodged or mispositioned if used by someone not experienced in their use. I personally would go for the pill. It has a multitude of other benefits and I think now the benefits may somewhat override the drawbacks. The pill also allows for a more natural sexual experience.
you can try the rhythm method (withdrawal method). Your husband has to pull out before he ejaculates. though it is not 100% foolproof.
If you don’t want to get pregnant on your fertile days, you will have to either use contraceptives (not 100% effective) or abstain from *********** (100% effective).
Sorry, contraceptives are the only way to try and prevent pregnancy..other than just not having *** at all.
Just use a condom
The only way to be sure is to abstain. Will your husband agree to that?
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Seriously, if you don’t want to use contraceptives, there’s not much you can do that’s not going to cause a huge mess. Except sitting in your hotel room watching TV …
do **** *** on those dates u cant get preg that way