I know I posted this question a little while ago?
Discussion Corner — By NikhilBhide on March 27, 2007 at 11:11Kat Woman asked:
But I really didnt get any answers.
In addition to our wedding we would like to throw a small (about 100 people) Indian Hindu wedding to respect my fiances history and culture.
We will be throwing it in his parents backyard but that is all we are sure about. I am Italian american so I do not know much about Indian weddings, what they need or traditions.
Our budget is about 8,500 (not including sari for me and his clothing). We already found that our rentals would be about 2000. So it leaves 6,500 for everything else, and I really don’t know what I things I need. Where can I cut costs…
Any tips or suggestions?
The question really is how do I plan a wedding for 100 people on 8500 dollars.
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First of all, I would NOT ask the inlaws for help…this is your time to make a GREAT impression for his side of the family by your ‘knowledge’!
Look at old family photos if you can…I am sure there is something wedding related…talk to your fiance…
Search the net…
Does the backyard have flowers planted that will be in bloom for your wedding? That would cut down on decoration costs…are you doing the reception, etc at night? Are there trees with fairly low branches? Hang lanterns…
Decorate a rented tent with items from the culture…(you need a tent in case of hot sun, rain or whatever)…
The possibilites are endless
See if you can get a wedding planner to do a consultation to give you some ideas (I charge $100-200 depending on the size of the event). What is included (for me) is a detailed outline on what would be included with a themed wedding. I also cater so if I was doing the catering portion I would (for free) give you an estimate and menu and also provide a tasting appointment. I would also probably try to include some recipes that your fiances family has passed down to incorporate. There are alot of professionals that will help out if they know you are just looking for ideas (most will charge). I have even done a consultation mailed to the bride (she lived in the US and I am in Canada) because she could not find anyone that would help her with ideas.
8500 dollars should be plenty enough for any type wedding. As far as they traditions behind an indian hindu wedding, I would do a search on line, it should pull up something. good luck
I would go to Google and search on Indian wedding ceremonies to see what you need and to find vendors. With not needing reception or wedding sites and not having to include both your clothes in the budget, it should be doable. Your future MIL could probably be a lot of help on vendors or shops where things can be found inexpensively. I would use her as a source as well.
Just don’t serve steak, my dear. Remember, the cow is a sacred animal in India, so be careful about what you serve. You don’t want to offend any of the guests.
You can cut cost everywhere, I did my weding on a budget and it was the best day ever. Make own place names and menus for tables ect. Make own wedding favours. Ask friends about people they know who can make cake, arrange flowers ect. Buy wine at wholesalers in bulk. Sale shopping for bridesmaids shoes and accessories, Get friends to drive briedemaids to reception. be imaginative, look on the internet, borrow things from friends ect. My tiara and veil were my friends as she only got married a few months before. You can do anything on a budget you just have to put your mind to it and think about it carefully.
Consult his parents- Are there any traditions his family has, or something they would be touched to see at this celebration?
Whats the backyard like? Lots of flowers and open space= easy for you. You wont need to get flowers and other decorations.
Like any good party, I would focus on the most important things: food and drink, and music. Meet with different caterers and see how far your budget will get you. You might be surprised.
If you make it more of a heavy horsdoeuveres (sp?) type thing, you wont need to rent 100 chairs, maybe only like 50 because people will be up and moving around.
i would google it i have not a clue! sorry
Research on line about Indian Weddings. There is where you will find all the answers you need. In the address bar, type: Information on Hindu Weddings.