how do you console yourself when you just lost a close friend?
Discussion Corner — By NikhilBhide on May 11, 2006 at 02:03shruti asked:
one of my friends had gone for a wedding . he was from the grooms side….in indian weddings normally the people from the grooms side sing songs and dance on the way to the place where the wedding takes place. so what exactly happened is that this friend of mine was crossing the high way with another kid and suddenly they both were hit by a truck…..all my other friends and i haven’t still been able to digest the fact that we just lost our friend……i can’t just stop crying….when i laugh i suddenly start crying….i just don’t want to eat , talk , listen to music….i just don’t feel like doing the things i love doing anymore.cause each tim i try and having fun i remember him and also start thinking that what would he do if he were here.i really miss him but at the same time me and my other friends are having loads of fights ,we just can’t stop disagreeing on each others thoughts……i don’t want to fight with them …..it just makes everything worse…..please tell what i can do?
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2 Comments
Wear their clothes, sleep in their bed and spend their money.
if your grief continues in this manner then I would go to therapy – sounds like something more underlying that you are going thru.
(i have been there/done that).
best to u.